Don’t Stop Me Now: Singing Along At Musicals, That Is

A couple of years ago, we ventured to London to see "Bat Out of Hell", a live spectacle celebrating one of the most iconic albums ever. The crowd was a mix of leather and tweed, united by a massive admiration for Meat Loaf—I can still hear the roar of that onstage motorbike.

As the lights dimmed and the music soared, we were whisked into a world where spontaneous song is the norm and no one bats an eyelid. The performers, voices powerful enough to shatter glass, poured their souls into every note. Enthralled, we found ourselves mouthing the words, tapping our feet, and even breaking into song—only to be met with disapproving glares from most of the audience.

What the fuck? It’s Meatloaf! "Bat Out of Hell"! The music demands vocal chord-busting, piano-driven, electric guitar madness. But we can't sing along? IT'S MEATLOAF!

If you’ve ever been in this predicament, you're not alone.

The urge to join in when your favorite tune kicks off is nearly irresistible—after all, musicals are about the joy of song. But perhaps we should first discuss the delicate art of musical theatre etiquette. As much as we love a good sing-along, there are some unwritten rules to consider.

The Golden Rule: The Stage is for the Performers

The stage is their domain. The actors, dancers, and singers have spent years honing their craft to deliver breathtaking performances. They're the stars, and while you might have nailed "Heaven Can Wait" in your shower, it’s best to let them lead. Imagine preparing for months for a solo, only to compete with an off-key, slightly delayed audience chorus. It’s akin to bringing your own popcorn to a Michelin-starred meal. Enthusiastic? Certainly. Appropriate? Not exactly.

Know When to Hold Back

Yes, “For Crying Out Loud” may stir your inner rockstar, but remember: musicals are a shared experience. Everyone has paid to hear the professionals, not the tipsy fan a few seats down. Practice restraint. Mouth the words silently if you must, and save your full performance for the car ride home.

Clapping and Cheering: The Right Time to Show Your Love

You don’t have to sit mute! Musicals invite interaction, and there are ample moments to express your appreciation. Applaud at the end of a song or scene—not mid-verse like ecstatic, unruly fans.

Cheering and shouts of “You’re amazing!” are great, but keep them brief and well-timed.

The Sing-Along Exception: When It’s Actually Encouraged

Now for the fun part: some musicals, like "The Rocky Horror Show", not only allow but expect you to sing along. These are usually marked as “sing-along” shows, designed for the unabashed fan. In these instances, belt every line and enjoy being part of the chorus. Just be sure to check the program first—you don’t want to be the lone stand-out in a quiet crowd.

Love the Music, Respect the Moment

Musicals are to be enjoyed, savoured, and shared. Yet, the theatre is a sacred space where the audience’s role is to observe, listen, and be transported. The next time the urge to sing strikes, breathe in the moment, appreciate the professionals, and save your performance for later.

Unless it's "The Rocky Horror Show" then, by all means, sing your heart out!

Maybe not to "Bat Out of Hell", because a big chunk of that audience just don’t like it.

IT’S MEATLOAF!

Written by Pippa